Women always have a million and one things on their plate at all times. The stresses of daily life can be too much to deal with sometimes, so we tend to get overwhelmed with all of the things we have to juggle – work, kids, cleaning, the never-ending dieting. When we get overwhelmed, we become stressed and, when we’re stressed, we turn to food for comfort. After you’ve had your first couple of Oreos, you come to this realization that you’ve cheated on your diet, and, once you’ve cheated, you get the “well-I already-screwed-up-so-I-might-as-well-eat-everything-in-the-pantry” mind-set. We all go through it – it’s a part of life. The only difference from that being a part of your life to living a healthy life is that you can learn to change it, so it doesn’t ruin your health or weight loss goals. You can eliminate this bad habit.
I know countless women who spend their time searching the internet for new ways to lose weight or get in shape – I used to be one of them – but I have news for you: There’s only one way to do lose weight or reach your health goals; it’s to live a healthy lifestyle. There is no certain diet that will lead you to your goals. For example, Atkin’s works, but only for a few months until you get sick of it, binge on bread, and realize that you’ve consumed way too much protein than is healthy. You can read and learn all you want about diet and exercise, but unless you do something with that knowledge, like incorporate it into a healthy routine, it’s useless. There’s no magic book, fitness DVD, or famous personal trainer that will change your life or do the work for you. The information is out there, and it’s great to acquire, but only you can make yourself use it. Jillian Michaels can’t come out of the TV while you’re watching “The Biggest Loser” and tell you to get off the coach and stop eating donuts. If you want to make a change for the better, you must get your head in the game and make yourself get off that couch. The best way to make a change in your life is by creating a structured day molded by new, healthy habits.
It is common knowledge that repetition leads to habit. The development of a habit isn’t something that happens overnight and I think that’s why so many women get frustrated with themselves and give up so easily. In order to create habitual structure or routine in your day, you must practice and repeat the skills that will lead you toward a healthy habit and, ultimately, your optimal health or weight loss goals. Once you’ve continuously and successfully mastered the repetition of the new routine in your life, all of the things about dieting and working out that seemed so incredibly difficult before will take little to no effort at all! When you fit the right routine into your life and find a structure that works in your day, it will be a breeze for you to make progress.
Structure and routine will not only benefit your health, they will also allow you to achieve other goals in your life while organizing your thoughts and tasks. By planning ahead and already knowing what your day will consist of, you remove all unnecessary distraction from your day.
“[Structure] can also greatly simplify your work day and personal life, as your day won’t be overly chaotic and complicated, you can group similar tasks together and batch process them, and you can be sure of doing the things you really need to do. Most importantly, it puts you in control of your day, instead of putting you at the mercy of the ebb and flow of all incoming requests. Without a routine, we have no good way of saying “no” to requests as they come in, and we are at the beck and call of every person who wants our time and every website that wants our attention. That’s not a good thing, not if you want to get the important things done” (Zenhabits.net).
It sounds simple and, for once, it actually is. Make a plan, stick to it, see results. Get your work finished, live a calm, organized life, and reach your health and fitness goals while doing it.
You’re convinced now, aren’t you? Well, now that you’re gung-ho for structure, the next step would be to create it. Here’s where you ask, “How do I do that?” Good question.
Follow these tips:
- Every night create a list of what you plan to do the next day – start the list from the time you wake up until you go to sleep, make sure every part of your day is accounted for, and set times for the things you plan to accomplish.
- Don’t make your to-do list/plan too complicated. Don’t clutter it with a high number of tasks that you won’t be able to accomplish.
- Remember, repetition is important. If you don’t stick to your schedule one day, don’t be too hard on yourself. Sometimes life gets in the way and all you can do is the best you can. Learn from your mistake and follow through with your routine the next day. Each time you repeat the routine, it will become easier to follow.
- Test out a few different plans/routines – write up a few and see which one fits best with your personality and schedule.
- Keep a training log. It’s important to track what you’ve done in past workouts, so can move forward and progress in the gym.
- Keep a journal of your daily meals/calories/intake. Being able to see day by day what you’ve eaten will allow you to see what works, what doesn’t, and what you should continue to do in your routine. What time you eat and what you consume is extremely important when eating “clean”. Plan wisely.
- Each week, choose a day to take a progress picture. As your routine gets easier day by day, each week you will see changes in your body. The changes may be dramatic or almost unnoticeable, but it doesn’t matter as long as you are able to see results.
- Have a positive outlook on your new plan/routine. If you treat it like it is only something you are doing to lose weight and view it as a punishment, there is very little chance that you will follow through with it and you are more likely to be unhappy while trying.
- Be sure to include time in your day that is solely dedicated to yourself to do what you like to do – read a book, watch your favorite TV show, take your dog for a long walk, etc. If you enjoy your new routine, you will be more likely to stick with it.
Most important, you need to have confidence in your ability to accomplish your goals and must be motivated enough to follow through with your new plan. Each and every one of you is capable of achieving your goals, you just need to believe so. Take pride in yourself and make sure that you are making choices you will be happy with the next day. Let everyday be better than the last – make progress! I believe this post is like all of the other information out there; I’m telling you what you need to do, now all you need to do is actually do it! I know you can! Good luck!
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